Are you looking for ways to spice up your sex life? Look no further, here I have 7 things to try out with your partner. Sometimes couples need to mix things up and be a little spontaneous. Keep reading in you want to spice things up.
1. Get a Hotel Room
It can be exciting to just change the location. You get into a routine in your own home and in your own bed, and things can get boring. When you bring yourself into a new environment it can bring yourself into a new mindset. It may make your feel more sexy and adventurous.
2. Have and Aphrodisiac Meal
There are certain foods known to boost your sex drive. It would be fun to have a dinner of all aphrodisiacs in a candle-lite setting. This can be a fun, silly and sexy way to spice things up. Just make sure you don’t get too full for your after dinner activities.
3. Pretend Your Strangers at the Bar
I always see people do this in movies and it seems very fun and sexy. You both can also have fake personalities and pretend to be different people. one of you can be a secret spy and the other can be an exotic dancer. When it’s time to get in the bedroom it can be exciting to have sex like you’re someone else.
4. Do It Outside
There’s something sexy about the threat of being caught at anytime. It can bring you back to your high school days when you were’t allowed in your bedroom alone with your partner. This can make you feel spontaneous, sexy and give you a boost of adrenaline.
5. Film Yourself
This is one of those things you have probably always thought about doing, so you should just try it. Use your iPhone. Your can pretend you’re a porn star and put on a performance. You don’t have to save the video, it can be something fun and sexy to try.
6. Watch Porn Together
This can be a big turn on while you are doing it. You can put something on the t.v. and watch it together while you are doing it yourselves. You can also copy what they’re doing on the video. This can be very exciting and turn you both on.
7. Use Props
It can be very exciting to introduce some new items in the bedroom. These can include vibrators, butt plugs, handcuffs, blindfolds and sex dice. Using these things can enhance how things feel and got you more excited about doing it.
I used to never read, but I made it my goal to read more as an adult. Summer of 2021, I discovered booktok. If you are unfamiliar booktok is the side of TikTok that only talks about books. I have found so many great recommendations. I decided I would share my favorite books I have read so far. So, keep reading if you want some books to read in the new year.
It Happened One Summer by Tessa Bailey
Super obsessed with this book! L.A. party girl is forced to move to a small fishing town where she meets grumpy, fisherman Brendan. It’s a grumpy vs. sunshine romance. Brendan is definitely a man written by a woman. This book is a fun and spicy read! Perfect for anytime of the year.
Overall: 5/5 Spicy: 4.5/5
The Hating Game by Sally Thorne
The classic enemies to lovers. Two co-workers, Lucy and Joshua, have always had it out for each other, until one day Lucy has a sexy dream about Joshua and things start to heat-up between them. A funny and feel-good read.
Overall: 5/5 Spicy: 3.5/5
Ugly Love by Colleen Hoover
Beautiful book that covers two story lines. One story line takes place during present day, Tate, a nurse who meets her brother’s mysterious and sexy best-friend, Miles. The other story line takes place seven years ago, following the story of Mile’s first love. You see how Tate and miles develop friends-with-benefits relationship and also why Miles refuses to have a girlfriend ever again. This book made me cry, beautifully written.
Overall: 5/5 Spicy: 3.5/5
People We Meet on Vacation by Emily Henry
A ten-year slow burn love story between best friends Poppy and Alex. After meeting in college, Poppy and Alex begin to take a vacation year for the past 10 years. Something happens between Poppy and Alex that causes them to stop talking. As an attempt to salvage their friendship Poppy invites Alex on one last trip with her. You follow their present-day vacation as well as every vacation they have taken for the past 10 years. One of my favorite stories.
Overall: 5/5 Spicy: 2/5
Punk 57 by Penelope Douglas
This story follows the two perspectives Ryen and Misha, elementary school pen pals that have stayed in contact for 7 years. They have never exchanged photos or social medias until one day Misha stumbles on the Facebook of Ryen. He transfers to her school under a fake persona and learns how she’s nothing like her letters. Badboy vs. Cheerleader, super spicy read. I love this book!
Overall: 5/5. Spicy 4.5/5
The deal by Elle Kennedy
College story that follows the two perspectives of Hanna and Garrett. Garrett is the super-hot, cocky, captain of the hockey team, and Hanna is a smart, music major that agrees to tutor Garrett. One thing leads to another and their friendship leads to something spicier. I wish the plot line was a little different, but still really good
Overall: 4/5 Spicy: 4/5 TW: Rape
It Ends With Us by Colleen Hoover
This book follows Lilly and her two love stories. It follows they story of her and her first love when she was 15, and then her present-day love as an adult. She begins a new whirlwind-relationship with “Mr. Perfect.” Then her first loves appears back in her life. She’s put in some hard positions in her new relationship that give her a new perspective of what love is really all about.
Overall: 4.5/5 Spicy: 2/5 TW: Domestic Abuse and Rape
Beach Read by Emily Henry
This story follows January, a writer who recently discovers her father has been having an affair for years. After his death, he leaves his summer home to her. She moves in for the summer to get closure and write her next novel. She soon meets her neighbor Gus and thus starts their confusing relationship. A feel-good read.
Overall: 4/5 Spicy: 2/5
These books were all amazing! I highly recommend them. I could not put these books down and most of them I finished in a day or two. Hope you like my suggestions!
Every man is different. If you see a guy, you’re interested at a bar or party you can’t approach all of them the same way, you need to read the vibe and adapt. I will give you different ideas on how to approach different guys depending on the situation. Keep reading if you want to know how to approach men.
The Shy Guy
This by far has to be the easiest guy to approach, there could be a small chance he has a GF so always check. But if you see a guy sitting by himself it is go time! Literally just go up to him and say “Hey what’s up? I’m _____.” BOOM! You’re in. If he’s shy, be ready to be silly with him and break him out of his shell. This conversation can go all night long, make sure you ask for his number because he could be too shy to ask for yours.
The Outgoing Guy
With this guy, you need to beat him at his own game! He likes when girls are sarcastic and joke around with him. He might be competitive, so don’t be afraid to get a little friendly completion going. Say, “I bet I can chug my bear faster than you.” This guy is also just looking for opportunities to talk about himself, so ask him to tell you a story about his life. I’m sure he’s used to girls always complimenting him so maybe tease him about how “cool” he must think he is.
The sporty Guy
This guy may be too distracted by the game to be able to talk, but I’m sure he knows everything about the sport. This can go one of two ways: 1. You know about sports 2. You don’t know a thing about sports. I don’t know about sports, so I would go up to him and ask who playing. If you do know about sports, you can ask him who’s winning. Then the conversation should take off from there. If you don’t know about sports, keep asking about sports stuff and if you do know about sports talk to him about your favorite teams.
The Pot Head
I recommend you also being a weed smoker for this one, but if you’re not, no big deal. Obviously, this one is easy. Ask if you could have a hit or ask him if he wants a hit of what you’re smoking. Once you have joined the rotation, sit next to him and just start talking. Ask him random questions and be silly, I’m sure he’s big on vibes, so just try and be chill and funny, and that should work.
The hot guy
It can be hard to approach this guy cause he’s probably intimidating and talking to other people. So, here what I’ve got, lol. Be walking and accidentally bump into him and apologize. Be bold and offer to get him a drink, because you “feel so bad.” Then just introduce yourself and see where it goes. If there’s a game on tv ask him what team he likes or you can be like “I definitely know you from somewhere, do we go to the same gym?”
I hope this helps, lol. Wrote this post just for fun, I can’t confirm anyone my advice will work, but its worth a shot. Thank you for reading!
Here is my step by step instructions on how to start your own Word press Blog! Looking to start a second source of income? Did you know you can earn up to $20,000 per month from having your own blog? Well you can! Its never to late to get started! Here, I share a beginner, step-by-step guide to setting up and creating your own WordPress blog! Keep reading and start your own website, and change your life!
Why WordPress/ bluehost?
I know there are so many different hosting sites such as Square Space and Wix, but they may not be the best option if you’re looking to make money from blogging. Those hosting websites are good for advertising your store front or providing info about your company, but they’re not really good for attaching affiliate links or working with brands. When you have a blog, your main sources of income come from affiliate posts, advertising and brand deals. Many affiliate sites will only allow you to work with them if you have a WordPress ( A Content Management system site) blog, rather than Wix (Website Builder.)
Cost
Like all businesses you need to spend money to make money. When you first make your website you need to pay your yearly fee. This may seem intimidating, because you may not want to spend the money. Think about the bigger picture an all you can accomplish if you invest in yourself and your business. bluehost, WordPress is actually one of the most affordable options for creating websites. This blog can potentially be your full time job that makes you $20,000 per month. So, think of the yearly fee an investment in your dream life. Click the Link below to get started, then follow along!
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Site
After clicking the link and heading over to bluehost, you will have two options to click. I recommend clicking the “Host Your Site” button on the left.
Choose your plan
After you click that, it will bring you to the different plan options you can choose. For beginners I recommend choosing the Basic option ($2.95 per month) and you can always change it if you need to later on or in the future. See image below.
Set Up
Now that you have selected a plan, you can start working on your site! The first step is choosing a domain name (website URL name). This can be anything, but I would keep is short and to the point. This can be just your name or you can create a name for your business. If you can’t think of one right away no rush you can always pick one later. Make sure it’s one you like, because it’s hard to change it once you’ve picked one.
Info
After that, bluehost will Direct you to your information page. Here you will just fill in the blanks. There’s always discount pop-ups that offer a cheaper rate, I recommend clicking them to get discount.
Payment
After you enter your info, you then enter your payment option.
The Fun Part
Now that you have all the information filled out its time to start personalizing your site. This part is the fun part. Your website/ blog can look any way you want! You will now be in your Website, hosted by bluehost. It may be intimidating at first but it’s not as scary as it looks.
Wrap Up
Now that your blog has some personality, you can start adding in some blog posts that fit the vibe of your website. I hope this post helps you guys on your blogging journey! Please let me know if you have any questions. This post contains affiliate links, so when you click the link provided, and set up your site, I get some commission. Thank you so much for reading and being here!!!
Are you ready to be in a relationship? What does that question mean and is it even important? Is anyone ever really ready to date? Keep reading to see if you’re ready to date.
Are Your Vibrations High?
Everyone always says, “How can someone love you, if you don’t even love yourself.” I have to agree with this quote is away because when it comes to finding a partner, it’s all about vibrations. What does this mean? People vibrate at certain frequencies and like attracts like. When you are happy and positive you give off a high frequency vibrations and therefore attract people with high frequency vibrations. SO, when you’re feeling low and down on yourself, you probably giving off low negative vibrations and therefore attract someone with low negative vibrations. Connecting yourself with someone negative while you, yourself are will continue to bring you down and attract negativity into your life.
With this information you can see that your vibe attracts your tribe. When you’re feeling really bad about yourself, it may not be the best time to try and meet a partner. Instead when you are feeling bad you should work on yourself to make sure you are happy and healthy. This way once you feel like you are back to your old self and feeling positive, you will have a better chance of attracting a good partner.
Are you Comfortable Being Alone?
It has also been said that someone must first be comfortable on their own before you can insert yourself into a co-dependent relationship. If you’re not comfortable on your own then you may just be getting into a relationship because you don’t want to be alone. If this is the case then you may be settling for a person less than amazing for you just because you don’t wanna be alone.
If you love being alone and always have a good time with yourself then that may be a good time to start looking for a partner. You don’t want to be the clingy, obsessive one ing the relationship. You don’t wanna be worried that your partner will leave you, cause you’re so scared of being alone. Once you are okay with being in your own company you will know you will be okay if the relationship doesn’t workout, therefore allowing you to not settle and not be clingy.
Are you Still Hung-up on an Ex?
Now I’m all for a rebound hook-up, but it’s probably not the smartest idea to jump into a new relationship after a break-up. If you’re still crying and thinking about your Ex how do you expect to be giddy and excited to meet someone new. Now, I understand that you may want to prove to your Ex that you’re better than them and are moving on quicker, but why kid yourself. If you’re still into and upset about them, then its not fair to get in a relationship with someone.
Time heals all wounds and by all means, hook-up with as much people as you need. But, don’t just jump into a new relationship with the first person who gives you attention, just because you’re sad and are looking for someone to ease the pain away. You need to work on yourself and remember what life is like without your Ex. You need to let them go and work on yourself.
Are you insecure?
Maybe you were previously cheated on or you have deep routed insecurities where you hate the way you look or are. Getting into a relationship when your super insecure about yourself can lead to an unhealthy relationship. When you’re insecure you tend to think that no one could ever truly love you. When you feel this way, it can lead you to let people treat you poorly. You feel lucky that someone likes you, even though they don’t treat you well.
If you are feeling this way you should seek therapy or just work on yourself. This goes back to how you need to love yourself before anyone else can love you. You need to be mentally and emotionally comfortable with yourself before you get into a relationship because you need to make sure you don’t just love this person because they are giving you attention, but you need to love them because they are an amazing person.
I hope this article helps some people. I am not a psychologist or anything. These are just my personal opinions. Thank you for reading!
Have you ever met a hot, sexy, strong man then once you start dating they want to be treated like a baby? I have came up with a new theory. If a man wants you to baby him that means he wants to date you. This theory also says if a man doesn’t want you to baby him, he doesn’t want to date you. If you wan’t to find out why then keep reading.
Why is this?
If a boy wants you to baby him, he wants to date you. I think boys have this weird mommy complex, where they love being pampered and babied, but this behavior of them is secret and privet. They only show you the baby side of them, and would DIE if anyone knew they act like a baby when they’re around you. When a boy is serious about you they trust you, see you as the future mother to their children and see you as a nurturer. Obviously super sexist, but deep down every man wants to be pampered and cuddled.
Story time to make my point valid: My college roommate was totally in love with this guy on our floor. They had been hooking up for 7 months, she really wanted him to ask her out, but he was taking a long time. His birthday was coming up, his parents were visiting, and she wanted to do something special for him (Make him breakfast). She was really excited to meet his parents and cook for him but, she didn’t know how to cook, so my other roommate taught her how to make an omelet. She practiced three times, letting us try them all. Once she got it perfect, she was ready to go. On his birthday she woke up ready to cook, she said how she had a surprise for him, and that she was going to make him breakfast. He immediately got defensive and said why would you do that we’re not dating (ouch) then said you should probably leave my parents will be here soon. (double ouch).
This story shows if a guy doesn’t want you to baby and spoil him, then he probably does not want to date you. Who would refuse a free, homemade breakfast? Someone who’s not interested!
SO, next time you’re talking to a guy notice his need and wants. If he wants you to cuddle him, if he uses a baby voice, if he wants you to rub his belly, he probably see you as girlfriend material. But, if he gets mad when you try to do nice things for his and doesn’t let you cuddle him, he most likely does not want to date you. Moral of the story if a boy wants to date you, he will want you to treat him like a baby.
Obviously this is all my own personal theory, so take it with a grain of salt. Hopefully this helps someone.
Covid restrictions have finally lifted in New York and I am ready for it. Just in time for Hot Girl Summer. It has been a long pandemic and people have lost a lot of partying. Since the bars will be alive and well this summer (probably more crowded than ever), trying to “real-life” meet people might be tough among a large crowd. You need to find ways to stand out. Usually, it’s much easier to start a conversation with someone when there is something on you or around you to comment on. You need to be bar-ready and stand out with some funky pieces. Keep reading if you want some ways you can stand out and have some great conversation starters.
We are here for saving the turtles and using reusable straws, but hear me out, make it funky. Not only will people come up to you because they love that you are an environmentalist, but they will also think you are unique and fun.
I can’t even tell you how many strangers will comment on my earrings. I think fun and unique earrings are not only a conversation starter, but also shows a little bit about your personality.
Portable fans are a must in the summer heat, especially if you’re in a crowd. If you’re looking to meet people this one will be your gold mine, because everyone will want a piece of that fan action.
How many times have you whipped out a pack of gum and everyone starts asking for a piece. There’s just something about gum that attracts people. Chocolate, gum, pretzel sticks any snack really will do the trick of attracting people over to you.
Flowers in your hair
Flowers are beautiful and a fun accessory. Not only does it show you are one with nature and down to earth, it is a great way to have people come up and compliment you.
Say you’re at the bar and the big game is on. If someone else likes that team, that’s an automatic thing you guys have in common. Something in common, gives people a reason to come up and talk to you. This doesn’t have to be a jersey, it can be a hat or t-shirt.
What better conversation started than the pandemic. We have all lived though it and made it out, and we have are vaccines now as a souvenir. This will start a conversation with which shot did you get? to where did you quarantine?
I hope these ideas help you stand out and people come up and talk to you at the bar. Enjoy this life, you never know when another pandemic may come up. Stay safe out there, get vaccinated and enjoy! Thanks for reading!
Summer is right around the corner. This summer is going to be epic, especially since it’s like a make-up for last Summer. These things are key for an amazing time. Everything here will have you equipped for all of the fun events you will do this Summer. See below for the top 10 Summer must haves.
Nothing is better than a Summer picnic! Whether at the park or at the beach, having a fun circle blanket is a summer staple. A super fun summer activity I love doing is ordering sushi and having a sunset dinner on the beach. Bring a bottle of wine and this makes for the perfect summer evening.
This is a super fun activity! This can be used in the pool, in a lake, by your boat, anywhere in water really. Playing some beer/water pong with your friends, while hanging in the water is always a good time.
Do you ever hang at the beach, crack a cold White Claw and then realize your beach chair doesn’t have a cup holder? Look no further, these are the definition of innovation. No more digging your condensation covered drinks in the sand anymore, we have portable cup holders.
One of my favorite things is reusable straws. It’s great to help out the environment and save the turtles, So why not get some cool, funky, reusable straws. Throw one of these in your purse and use it at restaurants, bars, parties, not only is is super fun, but it’s also a great conversation starter.
First of all, a cooler during the summer is a must have. Tail gates, picnics, beach trips, block parties or BBQs coolers are a necessity, so why not throw in a speaker. Everyone loves a good 2 in 1.
The #1 food of summer is fruit, veggies and salads. Using a veggie chopper will make preparing healthy, fit girl foods for the summer time. Eating healthy is hard, but when your veggies can be easily chopped this will make being healthy more convenient.
Fans are a summer must have, and now u can bring one everywhere you go. This fun portable fan gets powered by your phone. No need to pay for batteries, this fan is powered by your phone and will keep you cool wherever you go.
Let me tell you, there is nothing worse that nasty, salty, knotty beach hair. Having a tiny hairbrush you can keep in your bag, will keep you looking great all summer. I always bring a tiny hairbrush to the beach just incase I plan on going out to eat right after, i’ll always be ready.
I think bucket hats are so fun, and they are definitely coming back in style. Not only are they on trend, but they also protect your face and neck from the sun. These come in all different colors and designs.
I know these have been around for a while but it’s just too good. These little tampon wrappers can carry alcohol. You can sneak some shots into concerts, bars, or restaurants. You can take these as a shot, make a mixed drink or make your existing drink a little stronger.
I hope some of these things help make your summer awesome. 2021 will hopefully be the best summer yet! Love you all! Thanks for reading.
Birthdays are probably my favorite thing. I love planning them, I love going to them and most importantly, I love when it’s mine. Sometimes planning a birthday can be stressful, especially with a pandemic, luckily more things are opening up and becoming available. If you’re in you’re 20’s and looking for fun and unique birthday party ideas, then look no further. Keep reading for amazing party ideas.
Boozy Brunch
This one obviously goes without saying. With this idea you can go to a bottomless brunch restaurant, or you can host a boozy brunch at your house. Restaurants will usually have bottomless brunch with fixated prices and accommodate large parties. If you want to do it your self at your house, you can have a mimosa bar with different fruit juices to mix with champagne. You can either get food catered to your house, order from a deli, or cook a bunch of bacon and eggs.
Themed House Party
I see so many funny themed party ideas on TikTok, there’s really a lot of unique themes you can pick that fit you best. Some fun ones I saw were: Taylor Swift, where everyone dresses up based off a different Taylor album. Wig Party, every one comes in a funny colorful wig. Joe Party, every once comes up dresses as a different Joe (ie. G.I. Joe, Joe Jonas or Joe Exotic.) Decades Party, everyone wears an outfit from a different decade. TV/Movie party, everyone dresses up as their favorite TV or Movie character. Nothing like bringing it back to those college days.
Have a Board Game Party
I love games, I think they’re so much fun, especially mixed with alcohol and friends. Have all your friends sit around at table, pick out your favorite board games and go to town. You can have a mixed drink bar in the corner and can even make some of the games more interesting with some fun prizes. Some of my favorite games include: Cards Against Humanity, Balderdash, What do you Meme?, Kings, Head Up, Picolo, Red Flags and Telestrations. All of these games are so much fun and are guaranteed to make you laugh and get you drunk.
Host a Trivia Night. . . About Yourself
See how well all of your friend really know you. Create a Powerpoint trivia about yourself and invite all ur friends over. You can order pizza, drink some cocktails and have some laughs. Some funny slide category ideas would be hook-ups I’ve had, celebrities I would bang, or my favorite fashion trends from middle school. You can also add in some random “take a sip” slides in there.
Rent an AirBNB with a Pool
Have you and your friends maybe travel some where about an hour away, and all rent a house with a pool. You can buy some cute pool floats, play some beer pong, do some tanning and have a cute photoshoot. Obviously, you don’t have to rent an AirBNB, if you or one of your friends has a pool, definitely save some money and utilize that. But, if you live with ur parents still or you just want to get away, get super drunk, have a boy/girl sleepover situation after a night of drinking, this can be a great idea.
Have a Kayaking Day
If your birthday is during the summer or you live somewhere warm, kayaking can be a fun thing to do with your friends. You can get matching shirts made, bring a speaker, blast music and paddle around. Group-on has some great deals if you’re looking to save some money. After your 2hr kayaking is over, you and your friends can hang at the beach and go swimming. Great way to spend a summer Birthday.
Have a drink party
On TikTok, I see so many cool drink parties. Here each person will bring a fun themed drink and everyone at the party gets to try and then rate the drink. Everyone will get drunk and get to share a fun drinks. You can make the drinks extra special by using fun cups dressing up to match your drink. You can also order a pizza or have a cute charcuterie board. Kathleen Lights on TikTok has these every moth with her friends and has some great theme ideas.
Karaoke bar
Karaoke is always a good idea, especially when you’re drunk. There are so many places that have there own karaoke set-ups, most even have an open-bar deal. If you don’t want to go to the bar, you can just have your friends over your house and have a DIY karaoke set up. Pick up a microphone and pull up the lyric-version of a song on youtube, and there you go. Your friends can even dress up as the artist of the song they’re going to sing, for an added bonus.
Have a Free Day
If drinking isn’t really your thing, don’t worry there are other ways to celebrate. Many food places around town give out birthday freebies. Whats better than getting free stuff? Nothing! Some places that participate with birthday freebies include: Starbucks-drink, Panera-pastry, Krispy Kreme-12 glazed donuts, Moe’s-burrito, Chik-fil-a -dessert, Buffalo Wild Wings- 6 wings, Red Robin- free burger, Dunkin Donuts- drink, Auntie Ann’s- pretzel, Baskin Robbins- 1 scoop ice cream, TacoBell- Baja blast drink. Yes, all of this is free the day of your birthday!
Visit the Winery
Who doesn’t love wine? Wineries usually offer a tasting flights with some snacks. There’s usually something for everyone. Wineries are perfect for sundresses and pictures in the vineyard. This is more of a classy birthday vibe that everyone will love. Even in the winter, wineries usually have a nice indoor section, and most have those outdoor igloo you can sit in.
Hit the club
This one is the most basic idea but, one of the best. Theres nothing better than getting all dressed up and going to the club with your girlfriends. To make yourself feel extra special, get your nails done, your hair blown out and buy a sexy outfit. Looking good and dancing all night long never fails for a killer birthday. Your birthday is your day and you deserve to feel special and appreciated.
I hope this post gave you some fun birthday ideas. I wish you the happiest of birthdays and hope this year is your best one yet. Thanks for reading! xox!
Sometimes bad things happen, but there is always light at the end of the tunnel. Big problems or small, you will get though this. I was thinking back in my life and even though I was having a hard time or something bad happened, I was always able to reset and get back on track. I came out stronger in the end, but getting there can sometimes be tough. Here, I will give you somethings you can try to get you through a tough time. I hope some of these things will help you get back on track and continue to flourish. Keep reading and let’s get through this together!
So, you’re having a hard time, I’m sorry. Don’t worry! We are going to get through this, you are strong and things will get better. There are so much worse situations you could be in, even if it feels like the end of the world, things could always be worse. Seeking gratitude in dark times can help get you out, try and think of all the positive things in your life. Be open to accepting happiness.
Start journaling
Write down your feelings, goals, and stories. Having a place to write everything down can be so freeing. I would definitely look up manifestation journals. Doing this everyday can help you let go of your problems and have a space to grow new goals and ambitions. I like to write notes to the universe and thank it for all of the good things in my life, I also tell the universe what I want to accomplish. Doing this will help you realize that there are still so many things to be grateful for in you life. Try and be as positive as possible. Sometimes, when you pretend you are doing well, you start to actually do well.
Sage your home
Sage is a great way to cleanse bad energy. Maybe it works, maybe it’s just the placebo effect. Whatever it is, it cant hurt to try. Using sage or even crystals can help you in your healing journey. These elements can help give us the strength we don’t have. I am really interested in crystals and other natural healing techniques. Everything around us has energy, so try and surround yourself with as much positive energy as possible.
Give yourself a Makeover
Whenever I am feeling down, or there was an emotional change in my life, I like to change the outside of myself. Doing this helps me move on. It is kind of like the old me is gone and I am now starting this new chapter in my life as a new person. Getting a hair cut, dying your hair, or even re-doing your room can help you transition into a new era of your life. You can associate this “make-over” in your life with starting new and accepting change.
Go on a Trip
Everyone can benefit from some time away. Putting yourself in a new environment can allow you to reflect and reset. Sometimes removing yourself from the negative place that you were in, will help you almost forget about it (at least for a little). When you come back from the trip, you may even have forgotten about what was upsetting you or it might not seem like that big of a deal. You can go on a trip by yourself or go with people that make you feel good.
I hope at lease one of these things can help you get through your difficult time. Finding ways to reset can really help you get your life back on track. You are so much stronger than you realize and there is always a light at the end of the tunnel. It is best to just stay positive and only do things that bring you joy. Everything will work out. Thank you so much for being here and reading! Love you!
