So, if you are here you’re probably single and looking. Look no further, I have some great tips you can try next time you are around someone you are interested in. First off, establish what you are looking for. Do you want a relationship? Do you just want just a hook-up? Or perhaps you just want a summer fling. I got you covered. Obviously, you need to go about mingling with men differently depending on what you want out of them. When going to the bars to meet someone, you are going to need to be confident, fun, and an enhanced version of yourself. You need to show the guy you are interested in, that you are the best girl in the bar. So, keep reading if you want to know how to get a guy to like you.
If your looking for a Relationship/ fling:
So, you’re ready to settle down. Perhaps you have a guy in mind already or you’re looking for a new guy. Relationships are interesting, you need to be the perfect mix of a housewife and a whore. Obviously, you don’t need to be but, ideally that is what every guy is looking for. A lady in the street and a freak in the sheets. Now, unpopular opinion: sleeping with a guy on the first date, does not mean he won’t not date you. I always sleep with guys on the first date and they usually want to date me. Though, I usually go for good guys, that could play apart. LOL.
My secret for getting guys to fall in love with me is actually quite simple. You just need to make it all about him. So, you’re talking to a guy or you met him online and it’s your first date. Make it all about him. It’s as simple as that. Ask him questions and while he is answering seem genuinely interested. Try not to talk over him or interrupt with your own story. Just keep asking him questions and positively comment on them. Continue asking him more and more questions from the story he is telling, and get personal with them. Ask him about his family and his parents. Make him feel super special. See, men are used to always giving the girl all the attention and always asking about the girl. But, when the girl starts to ask about him he will see you as different. No other girl has gave him attention like this before and he will see you as caring. He will feel so special around you that he won’t be able to stop thinking about you.
In conclusion: On your first date, just talk about him and make him feel special. Ask him questions and seem genuinely interested in what he is saying.
If you want just a hook-up:
Sometimes you just need a good dickking, and hey I don’t blame you. We all need a good hook-up and hey if he’s good, he might even become a recurring nighttime pal. So, this one is by far the easiest to accomplish, just be upfront and bold. What straight man doesn’t want to have sex with a woman? But, hypothetically there’s a really hot guy and a bunch of other girls also want him, you need to stand out from the rest.
First, you need to feel confident and sexy. You’re getting laid tonight so, take all your necessary precautions. Shave your legs, put on sexy underwear, wear an outfit you will feel confident in. If you look good on the outside, you will feel good on the inside. Now that you are ready to go we need a drink. Alcohol makes one-night-stands much better. If this man is standing/sitting at the bar, you better be marching right next to him when you order your drink. NOW, let me give you one line. After you order your drink I want you to look at him and ask, “Hey you look familiar, do you go to my gym?” BOOM. You’re set. First off, he’ll be flattered that he looks like he goes to the gym and it’s a great conversation starter. Then, you can talk about the gym and other things you like to do.
Don’t forget we are touchy. Make sure you touch his arms or his leg if your sitting. You can do this after he says something funny while you’re laughing, or if he says something relatable to you, you can give him a little backhand tap while saying, “OMG stop, me too!” Since we’re looking to hook-up we want to be extra flirty. Don’t be afraid to crack some jokes and mess with him. Maybe make fun of him a little (about something small), then after he reacts grab his arm and be like “I’m kidding” while laughing. After, you’re close touching and you’re hopefully a little tipsy, you lean in for a kiss. Hopefully he will reciprocate.
Now that we know he’s interested and you’re talking to him, you’re going to need to prolong the night. A bonus would be if your friends, ended up talking to his friends, that way you could possibly move the party back to someone’s house/apartment. Wherever the night takes you, either to another bar or back to someone’s place, be next to him when the night starts to wined down. Whenever people start to go home, you can just ask him, “Wanna come over?” He will most likely say yes! And, there you go.
To wrap all of that up: 1. Wear something sexy, 2. Get a drink, 3. Go up to him and ask him if he goes to your gym, 4. Flirt by laughing at his jokes, touching his arm, and messing with him, 5. Kiss him, 6. Invite him over. There you go ladies a classic hook-up scenario, Good Luck!
